I went home and packed a suitcase and left it by the front door. Asked her to talk.
She walked in the room and said "are you leaving"?
Me: we both know what happened last night. You violated trust of the marriage. Your actions have caused me to leave. You have some serious thinking to do.
She started to cry and shake her head in acknowledgement.
I left.
This really cuts deep and I am going dark now. Attorney advised me to move back in ASAP so going to move to guest room tomorrow and keep my distance.