Dealing with a WW trying to save marriage

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Yep. It's a mental health issue. So today when I got up WW immediately ambushed me asking about how much I ran up the credit card. WW is convinced I'm just going nuts and spending drives of cash. I calmly explained that it's my card and I will use it and that I'm sorry if she feels I'm plotting against her when I am in fact not.

WW tried to again tell me I was puppeteering the children. I advised I'm sorry she feels that way but our children are old enough to know right and wrong and that the children unfortunately saw her true colors last night and that the perspective the kids have is based solely on her actions.

I told WW that I'm not taking blame for anything happening right now and that I know who I am and so do my children. I advised her that she got herself into this situation and that it's her responsibility to repair what she has done. I left it at that.

WW left for a while. Therefore I went to my moms with S11 and D19 for a while. WW messaged me asking where S11 was. I waited a while and advised "with me". I left my phone on silent and she had messaged four more times "where are you?" I never responded. Came home and WW is sitting in the room on her phone as always.