The new attraction brings on euphoria and fun-so I doubt many of them are feeling to lonely and they use the new person to run from their feelings and it works for a short while, till everything comes tumbling down-
The MLCer is not in their right mind- but from what I've read here and experienced myself- many will pursue the new fantasy life It rarely seems to work out for them
The LBS usually has to clean up the mess at home-be the strong involved parent and encourage good co-parenting even though we are crushed and hurt-
Usually no strategy will stop them so think about what will be best for your kids and you- and work for a peaceful transition for yourself and the kids-
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