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Sorry to hear that she is moving forward with him

The new attraction brings on euphoria and fun-so I doubt many of them are feeling to lonely
and they use the new person to run from their feelings and it works for a short while, till everything comes tumbling down-

The MLCer is not in their right mind- but from what I've read here and experienced myself-
many will pursue the new fantasy life
It rarely seems to work out for them

The LBS usually has to clean up the mess at home-be the strong involved parent and encourage good co-parenting
even though we are crushed and hurt-

Usually no strategy will stop them
so think about what will be best for your kids and you-
and work for a peaceful transition for yourself and the kids-


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow