Originally Posted by neffer
You need to be patient T. You know that. Keep working on yourself. Keep GAL


I know. Well one good thing throughout this is, unlike in the past, if/when something is bothering us, we have legitimately positive conversations about it.

W apologized for drinking so much last night, and I told her 'it happens', but I'm more disappointed that she kind of chose to have friends come with us, instead of it just being her and I for a while. She apologized for that and validated what I was saying. Again, in the past, neither of us would have said anything, which would have led to an eventual fight. So this is improvement.


Married: 15yrs
Ages: Me 49, W 44
Kids: S12
BD: around 4/14