That was why I was questioning the nails etc, it could be replay behaviour cycling. This journey is a tough one. Do what is right for you, if it is too much, one day she will live to regret it. Im sorry you are going through this. The cycling is what makes it harder, you get your hopes up and then they hit you again. Its part of the process. Detaching while they are in replay behaviours is a good idea. You are vulnerable right now, just make sure to not make any decisions you may regret later. Its a blow to find out about an A of any kind, Im beyond aware of that. She may escalate for a while, just be prepared and hold yourself together. You are strong.
Watching the sky for the space shuttle return...relief, lights at last BD May/12 (37, H41- D18 D13 S11) July 2012 ILYBNILY reconcile oct/12 no AP 2nd BD Jan/18 start again Original AP
