Stick to business and the kids. Reaching out like that to justify yourself might feel good in the moment, but it is counterproductive to DBing. You don't need to justify your actions to him, and it looks weak to do so. Same with making threats about using your childhood trauma against you. You are showing him that he has power over you, that he can get to you with his digs. Don't give him that satisfaction.
You need to let go whatever he thinks about you and your parenting. It doesn't matter. Do what you know is best for yourself and your kids and let him think whatever the h#ll he wants to.
W 34 Me 42 Married 7 years together 8 0 kids 1 beloved dog BD 4/6/2018 I moved out 4/7/2018 I moved back in alone 8/05/2018 I file 3/06/2019 D official 5/7/2019
