W and I had a conversation Friday night about our last MC session. I ended up telling her that hearing all those resentments was tough, even though I realize it's a necessary part of the process. She asked if I though MC was helping, and I said absolutely, but we're 8 sessions in and haven't even mentioned any issues I've had, up to and including her EA. We talked about that for a bit and I felt better about things.
As I said, W got a promotion at work, so I got us a sitter for last night and planned going to dinner to celebrate. Oh, I did get her a card and gift card Wednesday, which she thanked me for and kissed me on the cheek. Last night, like has happened so many times over the last year, our dinner turned into a 'double date' with friends of ours. W and I have very few opportunities to be 'alone', and again at MC this week W and therapist both said we need to have more 'dates'. So it was a bit disappointing that W kind of invited these friends to come out with us. By the end of the night, W was puking drunk.
Absolutely zero physical contact from her still, which to me has now reached critical level of frustration. Despite her repeatedly saying that she's 'starting to get those feelings back', her actions say otherwise.
I've been pretty quiet during our 8 MC sessions, but this week is going to be different.
Married: 15yrs Ages: Me 49, W 44 Kids: S12 BD: around 4/14
