I agree with you FS. I think there is more going on. He knows you. He knows you are not emotionally detached from your kids. He is worried you are emotionally detached from him. Stay the course. You are doing great. Two things... First... Congrats on your first day of non-smoking. You can do it!!! I know a number of lifelong smokers who have managed to kick the habit. It just takes some commitment and determination and I know you have no shortage of either of those characteristics. Second... WTF is up with that stupid camera?? I think you should just tell your H you are turning it off and that you don’t like to be spied on. Or... better yet, have it uninstalled and get just a plain alarm system without the video option. It is ridiculous that he keeps turning it on. That is not for your safety...it’s spying.
