Updating:

D24 is home for nine days visiting, she is very happy to see everyone. D19 comes home on Tuesday for five days. We will all be together except for their mom. As much as I love D24 being here I have to say something, I really find it odd that there are times I wish she would go out, I have gotten used to my privacy. This is not to say I dont want to see her its just I really liked when the house was empty.

Things are going pretty good, and we have settled into a new normal. I have made some new rules in the house that my adult children are getting used to, but its now my way or they can leave. This is a 180 for me. I do not want a sink full of silverware anymore, its dishwasher or wash it by hand. They are getting used to it.

Very busy with work, somewhat stressful but its all good in the end. I just hired D19 to sort through all my ppw and when she comes home for winter break she is going to sit down with my account to enter all my documents for the business on Quick Books.

I am going out tonight to play cards with a bunch of HS friends, we used to do this more often and I believe it will be happening again. No one loses a lot of money and we just make so as we are just getting together.

Bad week of running,next week I will run the first three days of the week then have at it on Thanksgiving. Hey you have to live a little too. My children want me to have dinner ready at 7pm which I found to be an odd time. Does anyone else eat at that time? I asked them all what their plans are and they just keep saying they dont know. At the moment I believe the inlaws are not having Thanksgiving this year.

So if you are reading this, and you are new here just remember there will come a time when you will not want your W back, I guarantee it. You will find someone who loves you for you, now when that happens DONT MESS IT UP! Take it slow and let the relationship blossom.

Have a happy Thanksgiving!!


M:52 W:49
D:26 S:24 S:23 D:20
ILYBNILWY 5/28/17
Still living together
W filed 1/5/18
W moved out 8/24/18
D final 9/18/20