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I think its good for her to see the possibilities and you creating new life/friends--some female

I don't think many of us have taken that route,
and most of us here also lost our spouses
every MLCer is a bit different

I don't think any strategy can really bring them through the crises but you are taking care of yourself and seeing possible new directions for yourself-so I will be curious to see the outcome
and how she handles it-


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow