I'm honestly completely detaching. The only reason I mentioned where she was is because she hurt the kids by lying to them.
I went out with three friends tonight after I hit the gym. It was a good night.
One question, I know that I'm supposed to still interact with WW. What if I dont want to? I can't stand who she has become. I pity her actually. I dont want to be rude but i literally dont want to even talk to her. Shes not initiating any contact at all. Which is fine with me.
I actually feel much better when shes gone. This shell of my wife garnishes no interest from me whatsoever.
Hi ST,
Detaching and GAL are about the results and not the actions. Going out with friends and living your life is the process but not the goal. Much like going to a gym and eating right is the way to lose weight but hitting does not mean you are.
I still sense anger,a desire for retribution and focus on your wife using the relationship with the kids as a front.
