So went to dinner 2 nights in a row with kids. Last night was great. Tonight....not so much.
Background: W feels I never made her part of my work life. She also knows nurses have been giving me numbers and hitting on me (she has a friend at the hospital telling her this stuff).
Dinner was ok. She had IC today and I think they've been hitting hard topics. Then, who is at the booth behind us? It's the attractive nurse practitioner who was basically been hitting on me non stop for 2 weeks. She's there with 4 other nurses I know. I introduce then to the family and W seems upset.
Then bowling. Who's on lane next to us? 8 ER nurses celebrating a birthday. I hear in unison "Hi Dr. XXXXXX" W is visibly upset. Kids are upset because they aren't bowling strikes. W looks at me and says "I hate doing things as a family. I hate it and dont want to do it anymore"
I just say "ok, I'm sorry you had a bad day" I start to plead and day we can do things non competitive but back off.
In the car discussed plans for tomorrow. I remind her on going out with friends. She said "oh you found someone to hang out with you" I said "I have friends and don't have to find anyone"
