The a$$ squeezing is temp -taking. He wants to know that he still has some power, some effect and could change direction and come home if he pleases. I wouldn't allow it. Make him realize that once gone, you will move on. really move on and not wait patiently in case he returns. Grace, the better you stick to DB principles the sooner this will end.
This is not progress in the M/R. It happened and it's over. Without proper reconciliation, you will most surely end up back here again.
Everything else shoulds like personal progress. Keep it up. Good job.
M 53 W 54, M since 98 D15, D19 8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM until 10/14 7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR 12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.
