You are too caught up with her. Detach , GAL. Tell your kids to respect their mother and do not talk bad about her to them.

I want to hear what you are doing for fun, not where she ran off to. And if you want to save you marriage you'll change your focus.

H 34
W 29
BD 3/12/18
Divorce Busted Spring 19

It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.