You have been destroying the last rays of hope for R by funding this abuse. You got some serious NGS are you going to a NGS group? What are you afraid of? She can't do anything to you that you cant survive. Be strong.
^^^Agreed^^^ Placating her is not doing you any favors for future recon. She already ended the M when she left and jumped into bed with OM. You're hanging onto something that's already gone. I'm not saying there's no recon in your future, there very well may be. But what you had is gone and you need to come to grips with that and make protective decisions accordingly.
