Yes what amoafwl said. Start feeling better about yourself, that is the first step in taking control of your life. Don't feel sorry for her, she has a roof over her head.
I don't get the needs snow tires anyway. If she doesn't have a job and it snows, where the F does she need to go....to see OM?
H-50 W-48 T-19 M -18 S23, S14 BD - 5/9/2018 OM discovered 5/10/2018
In house sep - 8/18/2018 Rope drop 2/15/2019 R'ing since 3/15/2019