An old mindset for Burned. This is thread 8.

[Twofeet]

Burned sleep on the house if you like, but I would be a little scared to share CC and joint accounts with W. I have heard the horror stories. A hard part for me and it sounds like others as well, is to get yourself out of the married mindset. Its not what is best for We or considering W on the matter. Its now about you! You obviously don't need to be a selfish jerk, but you need to be in the single person mindset. What is best for you and what protects your interests? No one is going to look out for you except, You!