you pursued a little bit when you asked her to have tea. She responded positively. Tell her "sounds good" in response to her wanting to have tea together. Short and easy.
And why not let her continue to pay for half of the house? She decided to move out and take on an additional expense, not you. Choice and consequence. Unless you are trying to "keep the peace" and make things easy on her. Where have you left that situation when you last talked to her?
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
