The Harrison Ford version of Han Solo was clearly the best. The new movie was a snoozefest for me, however!
Yeah, these are good problems to have, no doubt. Honestly, I am not particularly worried about this aspect. For different reasons (guilt, sense of fairness) than your H, my W also isn't going to force me to sell the house. I'm confident that we can come to an agreement whether it is "leasing" her portion of the house, or whatever it may be. I'm seriously looking around at job possibilities in other places so there is probably at least a 50% chance that the house gets sold, in which case none of this is a problem.
You will eventually get to a place where you can deal with the financials and the like calmly and without as much emotion. But I don't think that means that one is fully detached. I remember bringing up this stuff, and selling the house when I spoke with my W one month post BD. I think my mind just latches onto what I can control and deals with that in a calm, rational matter, because I was otherwise a total wreck back then.
W 34 Me 42 Married 7 years together 8 0 kids 1 beloved dog BD 4/6/2018 I moved out 4/7/2018 I moved back in alone 8/05/2018 I file 3/06/2019 D official 5/7/2019
