Hey ST, I struggle in same sitch, S22 knows all he had to be brought in early, S14 knew enough from hearing the arguments. I 2 am in IHS but we could both afford to leave but she won't and I won't because of custody issues. Biggest issue is S14 because WW went through her period of contacting him all the time with plans to be away for weekend. That upset him alot and he has felt like his mom has walked away from the family. Any hostility from S14 is blamed on me as guiding him through alienation which is not true.
It is a tough battle I admit, especially IHS but I know I have made strides. The advice here is good about GAL, you have to work on you. My attorney gave me same advice months back when I screwed up adultery charges. I said what can i do? He said call me if she moves out otherwise take care of yourself and your kids or you will go crazy.
It's an uphill battle I know but I am happier now and work with the kids to keep them as happy as I can regardless of the WW.
H-50 W-48 T-19 M -18 S23, S14 BD - 5/9/2018 OM discovered 5/10/2018
In house sep - 8/18/2018 Rope drop 2/15/2019 R'ing since 3/15/2019
