An old mindset for Burned. This is thread 8.

[burned]

Wow this is confusing because...there are so many implications. I would LOVE to feel that confidence again. And all the people who know me (including ME) would look at me and go, wow look who grew a pair, finally.

Two things.

1, she would probably just leave, no? That’s my assumption. She wanted to leave in June before I handed her the keys. She wanted to get an apartment closer to school and I figured OM would join her, so I tried to stop that by letting her stay in the house. It’s out of his way (he was living out of state with his W). Ha! A lot of good that did. (Actually the night of BD she said something like, “I can just go, if you want.” THAT’s when I should have said, “yes, go.”) So really, the likelihood of IHS is pretty low. But I do get what you mean about it being harder to detach.

2, related to detaching. I don’t really like the house, and anyway it’s full of ghosts. That’s what would make detachment harder, I think.