You are not doing it to get a reaction out of her. That would be wrong. You are doing it for you, to reclaim your balls. She strayed, why should you move out of your own home?!?
I see you are afraid that it might expedite the D. WTF? Your marriage is over. The only relationship that might come to fruition, will be a brand spanking new relationship. do not believe any bull$hit that she needs "time" to"find herself" and to "come to realization" what she really wants. It is all bull$hit. Do not go buying into this crap. She knows what she wants and it is not you.
And no amount of sheepish behavior will bring her back. You have to get on with your life and quit looking over your shoulder if she is following you. You have to live your life for you. This fact literary took a couple of years for me to sink in. And if I can shorten someone else's learning, than mission accomplished.
