I’m by NO MEANS an expert on any of this. I keep screwing up my own sitch plenty and am still learning. However, moving back into your house would be a complete shock to her wouldn’t it? You pretty much said so. According to sandi, woman need to earn respect for their H in order to find the attraction in them again. One way for her to earn respect is to show her you will no longer take her sh!t. Will it piss her off initially? Sure. But I think you are right that it’s probably one of those counterintuitive things. A lot of this is in my mind. But when you step back and think about it, it all does make sense.
What do you have to lose by doing it? Sounds like she hasn’t come around at all since you moved out, right?
She is the one that screwed up. She knows that, deep down. Why should you be the one to allow her to stay in YOUR home and carry on with her WW life and you are the one displaced? That shows her you will let her walk all over you which = unattractive.
M: 34 W:34 D:7 D:6 S:3
M: 9.5 years T: 12
OM found & BD (by me): 9/19/18 IHS begins W informs me she's moving out: 11/28/18 W files: 12/21/18 D Final: 2/25/19
