Thanks- I can’t know for sure if she’s telling the truth, but she came forward with a timeline that detailed their relationship from before anything inappropriate through the sex date, and afterwards where she confessed to additional (limited to professional) contact. She admitted to lying/minimizing the contact they’d had. I can’t know for sure but it’s the most info I’ve gotten out of her after asking MANY times and forcing her to hand over her phone/email for me to inspect (prior to me starting DB’ing)
Yes, 4 years of marriage therapy (started when she said it was an emotional affair so long ago) I wouldn’t say she’s 2 feet out. More like half foot out. Won’t say with certainty she wants to work on it but also shows up to therapy- even expressed being annoyed when the therapist cancelled today.
