I've "been through the ringer" on all of this. So I am not that worried. It would suck if she snuck off to see OM, but I'm so over it at this point.
As strange as it may sound, that's actually a healthy place to be- that's detached!
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W just wants easy street, magic wand, and back to marriage I think.
Yeah, I don't doubt that. Actually I have two friends that let their W's off the hook when they returned. They didn't pressure them for MC or anything like we suggest here (neither one of them knew about DB'ing, their separations took place before my BD so I didn't either). So far both are still doing fine with their wives. Maybe the timer is counting down to BD #2 but it seems like their W's just went through something temporary, a sort of mini-MLC. Anyway not saying to change what you're doing, but your comment got me to thinking about that.
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so nice to see gordie and anoherstander still around. hi guys!
