Feeling lost, scared and wanting to fix this. Pt 3

[Turbine]

To me she is that important to me.

This is a message for every LBH on here------> is she important enough for you to completely let go of her, to give her what she wants and not put your needs in front of hers? When it comes down to it, saving the M is all about what YOU want, right? I know how hard it is to let go. But that's what we have to do. We fight for our marriages by not fighting for them. By letting go, by giving our WAS's what they want. That's not "giving up", that's respecting their wishes even when they don't align with our own. It's the ultimate show of love, and one that might help them to change their minds about us later on.

Wow... Enter the Dragon moment. The art of fighting without fighting. Bruce Lee level of wisdom.

Can I do that? Take that leap of faith? In her? In me? In God?
Right now it is with such a heavy heart. Is that blowing up the bridge so to speak? IDK. I pray the foundation remains and is solid enough to rebuild on. If not...??? According to His plan.