So as per the phone convo with W she had back to back work meetings in the city all day yesterday. So I took LH19 advice and called her up, but due to her meetings I left a phone message basically using LH19 prompt. Late afternoon while I am at work I get a text from her asking for a phone call asap. It sounded urgent so I called her. She said she was having a vomit inducing migraine and left her meetings early. She dropped all the kids project stuff and some additional kids stuff off at my house. I said didn't you get get my message? She said no so I told her what it said. She said she can't watch kids as her migraine is killing her and causing her to vomit. She wanted me to ease D8 disappointment, so I told her I will tell her what happened. Well when I picked up the kids and told them D8 was disappointed and was saying W never never helps, D8 can never rely on mom, mom lies etc. I reminded D8 W is sick so it cannot be helped. D8 said mom always gets migraines and doesn't help. So I said to D8 mom said she will make it up to you on the next school project and if she doesn't you know I will always go out of my way to help you with school. You have nothing to worry about I will do my best to make sure you are okay. Later that night D8 video called W to show her the project. W told D8 she had been laying in the dark since she got home. I had all 3 kids wish wife goodnight and get better. I saw W briefly as she needed to quickly discuss a child scheduling issue. W looked pretty bad, after I got off the phone I felt bad for her.

Last edited by Twofeet; 11/15/18 02:42 PM.

H(37) W(35)
D8, D5, S3
T20, M13
BD 8/31/18
EA Discovered 9/13/18
Mediation 10/3/18
W files for D 10/12/18
W moves out 11/10/18
EA confirmed 12/25/18
D Final 1/10/19