He was exceptionally sweet and kind to me. Gave me a big hug and asked me to stay for dinner, which I did. After the kids went to bed we talked on the couch. He held my hand and looked me in the eye and kept giving me that look he used to when we were together and in love. He said he was sorry he got angry. He said he was just trying to enjoy his weekend. He told me he loved me several times. I know we both wanted to sleep together but didn’t.
Classic WAS behavior. He's just throwing you enough crumbs to keep you on as Plan B, but as far as he is concerned it's still full steam ahead with wrecking the marriage.
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I swear I’m going to get whiplash with his constant personality changes.
He's actually being completely consistent with WAS behavior. The problem is your expectations. Every time he says or does something nice you interpret that as a softening of his position. IT IS NOT. He's just stringing you along while he sorts all his plans out. Later? Who knows, he may very well have a turnaround. But for now this is who he is.
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He keeps asking what my plans are and with who but it’s none of his business. It’s driving him crazy.
GOOD! You are right, it's none of his business. And it's driving him crazy? Awesome, you're doing something right
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I plan not to reach out to him. Wish me luck and strength to do that and not get weak and wonder what he’s doing when I don’t hear from him.
