The kids having mobile phones issue cropped up. I said that WW bought and given them without discussing having same guidelines in each home so created issues. WW replied saying she's wiling to discuss it and asking what I propose.

I don't want to be drawn into proposing anything because I don't trust her not to twist my words against me ahead of the custody court case. She created the issues. Any suggestions as to how to reply?

For legal reasons I was advised to write a diary of events and it's staggering looking back at WW lies. After she left she took us out for meals etc. but had acted extremely distant but generous etc. I now know she had made a statement against me to the police and was using these interactions to try to create a scene to get me into trouble, and although WW seemed to be generous she was secretely taking and hiding a lot of money. My suggestion to others is to write a diary because things that make no sense at the time may become clearer over time and help you to get some closure and move forwards.