change your hair style and buy new clothes that are nicer and younger than you currently wear, and smile at the check-out girl.
I did that and got talking to a check-out girl who then asked for my phone number as we have things in common. We went out for a night and had a great time. She's exactly half the age of W, totally gorgeous really WOW, very intelligent, hard working doing the check-out job whilst doing studies, and we have so much in common it was incredible. She knew more about my passions than I did. No chance of R but we had a fantastic evening being sociable.
