Holy moly! This guy is text book narcissist. The level of spinning when he feels he is losing control is highly disturbing. I am going to go against the grain and tell you to get a house alarm, have your lawyer issue a strong letter that he is not to alter your mail (federal offense stuff!) and only communicate through a third party. The most dangerous time in a woman's life is when she is trying to separate from an abusive man. This is when the highest rate of murder, maiming and assault occur. Please don't underestimate this man, there are so many red flags popping up while I was reading this. I literally had a knot in my stomach while reading the progression of his attempts at control and and stalking.
M 10yrs T 13yrs BD #1Oct 2015-PA between WAH and COW BD #2 April 2016-WH resumed PA, she broke it off Jan 2 2017 WH says he wants divorce April '17-Letting go 2018 D busted DD8, DS6, DS3