Whirlwind of Hurt 4

[Twofeet]

I told her she could eat dinner at my house and she said don't go out of your way to make me dinner. I said I am not, I am making dinner as usual for everyone and there will be plenty if she wants to eat.

TF,

This is pursuit man. Look if you don't want her back and you are totally cool with a blended family I'll do projects at your house, you do projects at my house dinner eating kind of thing that's fine. This is cake eating big time.

Let us not lose sight of the fact there is an om in the picture here. Do you want to be cooking her dinner and then she goes over to his place afterwards?

Time and space turns this around. Nothing else.

Would you suggest I just give her the boot and just handle it? Its frustrating because this is sh!t she should have handled before she moved out, and I don't feel like I should have to pick up her slack. At the same time I don't want my kids to get in trouble with school because W doesn't have her sh!t together. I can see this being cake eating too, W can just forgo doing school work with the kids on her days and just dump it off on me cause she knows I will do it. I am frustrated because I can't figure out if I am loving from a distance or allowing cake eating.