RR17, you come off as extremely hard-headed and unwilling to listen to advice. Even here, you insist on being "right" and explaining to everyone else why you are. Even when you are not. That's no big deal here where none of us know you and can simply quit posting on your thread if we get tired of the attitude. But if you're really interested in saving your M then you need to wake up and own the fact that you are righteous, holier-than-thou, and combative. The sooner you work on this the better your chances of salvaging your M.