9 years of dating post divorce, maybe and hopefully because i'm a little younger (sorrry!!!) I hope that's not me. But I have read some threads, if i remember correctly where that's the likely story. I guess I'm just taking it day by day, focusing on me and hoping one day i'll just meet what will hopefully be the person that values me, appreciates me and loves me unconditionally for the rest of my life. I am most certainly not doing ANYTHING to try and date or find a lover.