Thanks. I think she is about to hit rock bottom too. Job search is not what she hoped and she's extremely depressed. May want to go back to school to do something that pays the bills but not something she really wants to do. Also feels shes wasted her life, etc...She tried to engage me again this morning by saying "if we get divorced I will need a good job. I know that's not what you want to hear"
I said "I get it" she started to cry and I left for the gym.
It's so hard because the husband in me wants to embrace and tell her it will be ok. The DB in me just wants to get out of the situation.
