How often can I tell her that I am not in an open marriage? I want to tell her that because I know she's still talking with OM. She doesn't have much to say and neither so it at this point.
You......are.....in an open marriage it seems. So what are you going to say to her, exactly?
Nothing. I just meant saying the boundary statement. I have said just about that so I'll leave it at that. And yes I am in an open marriage. This guy lives out of state though. Thank God.
I mean, you should only state your boundary once. But...if you are in an open marriage, what does it mean to say that "you wont be in one"? What happens if she continues? What will you do to protect that boundary?