13 years and two small children

[Hurt213]

So..

I was at her moms today with sick D. And I spilled the beans (might have been a huge [censored] up - but I couldn't control my self anymore) I told her, that WW had been being this other guy since July, and That I had known all the time, we had been visiting MIL. She was appalled, by her daughers actions. I told her not to do anything with it on my behalf. I just wanted her to know why I was not attending any more family things, and that I had given it my best to try and save our family. She knew that was true.

I just removed her from my Netflix account, my Spotify account - wrote a text, telling her that before I leave today, she will have called the bank and our phone provider and have all her personal bills removed from our joint account, furthermore her phone is part of my subscription, this will also have changed before I leave the house.

From now on, I will be going detach, gal and 180 mode. There is nothing more for me to do, so I will focus on me from now on, and my kids.

After this happens tonight I will follow your advice neffer.

I will treat her has a neighbor, and try to be calm, cool, relaxed and collected. <-- Do I act as though life is good, and I am happy around her? or that I am angry with her, and that she gets the feeling of backing off when she is around me?