PsySara, I used to post under my prior screen name to you. Had to change for the usual reasons.

Just wondering if you could give all the newbies here a very brief run-down on your sitch. I think yours is such an excellent example of why Michelle's theories work and provide the only chance most people have at turning things around.

I'm pretty sure that you would agree that only when you completely and utterly detached and he knew it with 100% certainty did he realize what he stood to lose with you and the kids.

Your perseverance, how you held so much together, and the trials you endured are such great lessons to others.

Congratulations on all you and he have accomplished.