Sorry Hurt. I was thinking how tough it is to have my H moved out but I think your situation is worse. I wish there was a quick remedy to all of this pain but there isn't. Try to set your boundaries. Be pleasant but not too friendly. Start working on self-improvement... read, journal, post, go for walks/runs...whatever you need to do. And then get the heck out of dodge when it is her week home. If you hang around when she is there, she will definitely be cake eating because she will get her week off AND have her H at home to help her with everything. It [censored] for the kids but this won't go on forever. You need to do what you need to do to keep yourself reasonably sane. Hang in there. Her world is not going to be this rosy for long. You are doing things the right way and she is not. That will catch up with her sooner or later. You will be better off in the long run whether it is with her or with someone else. (((HUGS)))