No contact for at least 21 days. I got that from another site/book who's author was on a podcast that MWD was on. But seriously, that's your best chance at getting her back. I'd link that site b/c it's great reading material, but I think that's a no-no.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
