Im so sorry- the best advice I have is to trust yourself- I think You have handled a very tough situation well, and you will continue to sort through this mess until you hit the other side and you will....
If you think the person (Gal) is more focused toward W needs.. She may be,,
I know I had a friend who had a terrible D and her XH had a lot of money.. I don't think her case was MLC, more just a XH who became addicted to prescriptions anyway she was always so baffled because the mediator always seemed on his side, and she was the honest one and a wonderful parent and person- he was a real manipulator/con guy
I will prayer for you and I know you will handle it well Take good care of you tonight lots of rest and prayer- wishing you all the best tomorrow
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