I text saying I will pick up my stuff this weekend and I would like to talk.
How much stuff are we talking? Hoepfully not much.
Text her this: "Hey something came up and I can't pickup my stuff this weekend. Would you mind putting it in a box? I might be able to swing by tomorrow to pick it up."
When you pick it up. No lingering. You are in a rush someplace else.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712