I just can't win!

[Ready2Change]

and you want to talk her back into the relationship. Don't do it. I would skip the talk entirely, all that will do is make your situation worse.

Completely agree. Talking never works. Only your behavior.

you could just invite her out on a date if you want to. If she says "no" then don't ask again. If she says "yes" then go with no expectations other than having a good time with someone you just met. but do it with no expectations and don't do any relationship talk whatsoever.

Agree. I would take a break (go dark) before asking her out. Wait until she contacts you.

So to summarize, she wants to be left alone, ...it sounds like she's done, and if you love her you'll respect what she wants and let her go.

Agree.

By pursuing her you're proposing that your wishes are more important than hers, and she's going to resent you for that.

Agree.