Finding the Balance and then Tipping the Scale

[Adam04]

MHO, if a man had a choice between a WW, WAW, or MCLW...…..the WW would probably the easiest or quickest to change her mindset. Not that any are "quick/easy", mind you, but the MLCW usually has some past issue that affected her psychologically...….and who knows how long that will take to heal.[quote=sandi2][quote]

Hey Sandi what are your thoughts on a WW with a MLC? That is where I think I am and it may be a lost cause.

Hey Lost, I gave that some thought too but haven't really been in the MLC section for too long, aren't there 6 stages to that? I was wondering if a WW didn't get a chance to "sow her wild oats" when she was younger, has been in a relationship for a long, long time, and she feels like she is in her prime in her 40s and becomes WW, would that be a MLC?

Also ovrrnbw, I hear you. I don't want it to be Contrived.

W today is texting me on what she is doing later with the kids and when I'm not immediately responding she asked if we aren't talking now. Told her no, we are... just waited for break time to respond, said ok then left it at that. She responds okay I was checking to make sure you got my text. To that I didn't respond.

Amoafwl, I think you mentioned I haven't stated any hobbies of mine. For the last couple of months I've hit the gym Monday thru Thursday here at work after work for an hour to hour half or I go home to help with the kids then work out there. Want to realistically lose 60 more pounds but aiming for 100. Been watching what I eat, playing basketball with the kids, both love it. Started putting puzzles together of all things with the 6 year old. Completed a 1k piece one not too long ago. I have my art supplies I haven't touched in a long time. I was going to be an arts major long ago but stopped. I want some solice and trying to find the right time to get back into that, creating, painting. Hard to do when my 6 year old asks me to help him with his legos every 10 minutes. I've gone to the gym once on a weekend. I tend to sign up to do more of that. Maybe watch a couple movies by myself. Have tons of books to read.