Bed wetting is something that is occurring with both of my D5 and D8. My IC informed me that this is not uncommon for children going through D. My IC says that it a response to the stress and fear they are dealing with. Just be supportive as much as you can for your kids. Let them know you are not upset with them wetting the bed and be sure to let them know your MR problems have nothing to do with them.
Many therapist consider EA to be possible with the same sex. It may or may not have anything to do with your W sexual preference. If W and her GF are both going through troubled times they maybe leaning on each other for support and enabling. This could be an EA, could be more, or nothing more than friendship. It shouldn't change the course for you unless you want it to. As I have said in my posts it is like once you summit a peak and find a taller peak behind it. Just keep climbing, just keep moving forward.
Last edited by Twofeet; 11/13/1806:23 PM.
H(37) W(35) D8, D5, S3 T20, M13 BD 8/31/18 EA Discovered 9/13/18 Mediation 10/3/18 W files for D 10/12/18 W moves out 11/10/18 EA confirmed 12/25/18 D Final 1/10/19