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I didn't move forward with any talk about her moving out and me not wanting her to live in the house anymore.

Good it would have blew up in your face and not given you the reaction you were looking for from her.

I told her something I saw Sandi write in another thread regarding a woman only being able to desire one man. If she desires OM, there is no way she can desire me and maybe that's the explanation I'm looking for on that matter.

Your'e still trying to use logic and reason with her which is a waste of your time and shows her your still attached.

She told me this morning via a text exchange that our R is intrusive and toxic which is contradictory to what she wants.

That's why we keep trying to prevent you from digging a bigger hole.

She's of course using my "blow up" (if you want to call it that) and the conversation last night and text exchange this morning as proof that I'm not changing the way I said I'm going to. I told her I can't just flip a switch and that I warned her that I wasn't going to guarantee I can change overnight. That I might fall back into that trap, etc. and that I'm human and make mistakes.

Logic and reason see above.

'm done talking R (I know, something I should have done 7 weeks ago!). Nothing good ever comes from it and anything I say, she either focuses on the small negative or implies whatever I'm saying in a negative light.

By George I think he's got it! Touching the hot stove ow ow ow ow ow ow ow

But I'm finally at the point where I understand it's her choice and decision and there's not a damn thing I can do about it.

Took me awhile to get there too.

We are scheduled to talk to a religious advisor (the priest that married us who is a very good family friend of my W and her family) next week. Maybe the miracle I'm looking for will take the place in that discussion, but I'm not going to expect for that to be the case. My W is pretty distant from me at this point.

What is the meeting about?