OK for an FYI, this "try" she has been home since Oct 14. She brought up the R on Oct 14 and said she wanted to work on it, I laid out the boundaries (MC, no OM, communication, fun/dates) and we moved forward from there.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.