glad to hear you are still in MC. I think getting those resentments out is important. It [censored] for the side who "caused" the resentment, but keeping that inside of yourself (or your W's self) is tough and makes things worse. So you have to get it out and let it go. The down side is that you feel like you've been yelled at. But I guess we need to listen and try to understand what's going on with them before they will do us the favor. Just continue to lead by example. Do the right thing and work hard for the best outcome while remembering that you only control yourself.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
