Finding the Balance and then Tipping the Scale

[Adam04]

Thank you Amoafwl, Steve,and Sandi for the support and advice this morning. I hear it. Actions not words.

My W told me last week that her family said this new me they see they like more engaging, more helpful.... I did tell her then to let them know it was because I was preparing ahead.

Is this bad the night we did talk few days ago, I was talking about continuing to work out, lost almost 60 pounds and she made a comment like maybe in the future if you're slimmed down we can maybe you know, I was like wtf, no. She asked why...so I told her I would be like where were you. Is that too cold or much to say to a confused person? Just don't say nothing at all?