For the past couple of days I’ve basically been putting as much distance as I can between H and I. Of course he isn’t really doing well with it. He says he doesn’t like that I don’t talk to him.
Last night we were both sitting on the sofa and he stretched out to lay down and then laid his head on my arm. It is so true what you all say about checking temperature because the whole time he was positioning himself to lay down on my arm, he was looking at me to see how I would react.
Mr I’m so tired of the routine and our marriage is boring fell asleep. Imagine that. It was 7 pm.
After finishing up what I was doing on my laptop, I got up. Which was probably about maybe 10 minutes later. I then proceeded to head up to my bedroom and he asked, are you coming back. I just kept walking.
After my long bubble bath, I came back downstairs to clean the kitchen and put dinner away. Once I was finished, I noticed that he was staring at me. I said are you ok? He said I’m just waiting for you to come back and sit down next to me.
I didn’t go and sit down next to him, I went back upstairs to my room.
I can’t belive how stupid this all is. However, I’m proceeding with the detachment. It’s not easy but I know it’s the best thing for me to do for me!
Original BD: 10/26/2017 PA: 10/2017 - 11/2017 Second BD: 09/15/2018 Currently: IHS M: 42 H: 45 S: 22 lives on his own D: 18 away at college S: 15 still lives at home - the only child we share together
